"Don't Take It Personally"

 

II Corinthians 1:3-7

3)           Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;

4)           Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

5)           For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ.

6)           And whether we be afflicted, it is for your consolation and salvation, which is effectual in the enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer: or whether we be comforted, it is for your consolation and salvation.

7)           And our hope of you is stedfast, knowing, that as ye are partakers of the sufferings, so shall ye be also of the consolation.

 

 

T

o be told this brings on contradictory feelings in many. Not only is this hard to do, it is also hard for most to understand. Since Man is a creature who believes things are directed at him personally, this simply does not make sense. For one thing we, like to believe that we really know "what's going on." We take an odd sort of "comfort" in believing that someone cares enough about us to persecute us.

 

The whole "phenomenon" of this issue must be understood and related to the question of who will be used by God. After all, it is we who have said that we want to be used. If this is, indeed, what we desire, we will have to be willing to allow our gaze to move from ourselves. You see, you can "work" for no one unless you know what he is working for. Unfortunately, all too often, we want to choose where, when and how we are used of God. Our primary concern is that things work to our best advantage—not His. All that is done now must be done to His glory and praise and not for our personal gratification.

 

Whatever confronts us is by the divine sanction of God and our responsibility to Him in all situations is to "suffer it to be so, now." After all, "God knows, God knows, God knows"—what I need to "do" and to be taught.

 

So with all of the confirmation we have of God's will and the confidence we say that we have in Him, what do we do with what He allows? Generally, have a problem. But, now is not the time to become faint, for as we near the end of "time" as we know it, the devil becomes more determined to destroy the saints and the Lord becomes more determined to save them. The only way any life will be saved in these last days is for the individual to be determined to praise God no matter what!

 

Much of our problem has to do with what we think is supposed to happen for us. For some reason, after we are saved, we expect that nothing adverse is going to, or supposed to happen to us. Once it does, we want "it" over with as quickly and as painlessly as possible. What we seem not to understand is that the Lord never promised to bring us out, but He did promise that He would enable us to bear it. It is the "bearing," that accomplishes the goal of making us "better" and it is the resentment that makes us "bitter." In that this is God's plan and it is He who has authored the "rules," He will provide comfort—and He will be that Comfort.

 

Though the Lord indwells us that He might be able to guide and direct us, such control is not automatic. The one He indwells must be willing to be under the direction of the Spirit in order to fulfill His will. You see, one Whom He directs through the Sprit can be used to win others to Him. For as tests and trails come, the correct reaction allows others to see Him in us.

 

Everyone will be able to win this "battle" if he only comes to accept that the things that happening the life of the saint are about God—not him. Despite the fact that it is us who are saved, this life is not a matter of what "I'm going through" or "what I'm dealing with." Most of us have asked God to use us and in order to do this, He must show others Who and what is within us. Why is it that after this, the first thing we wish to do is complain? We can be as "cool as a cucumber" when we accept that God has the solution to all problems.

 

The worst thing that one can do when going through "trouble" is to think about it in all its many dimensions. Nothing about salvation is directly related to us and even scripture says that it is for the consolation and salvation of those watching us. As important as we might like to be, in salvation, our importance will be gauged by our usefulness to and service of others.

 

Attaining a grasp of not taking things personally will ensure that that we will be steadfast and not change our attitude—about anything! Only by mastering this will we be able to lead others to the knowledge of Christ. They must see us trust God in trying times as well as in good.

 

Today's world is not one of "depth" in anything. It seems almost as if we avoid developing any. But even in natural lives, we see that people without stability and depth are unsuccessful. In salvation, the man without depth is one who will easily be carried away with "every wind of doctrine."

 

All men must come to understand that no matter what, the Word of God will stand. Redeemed Man alike must accept that disagreeing with it, refusing to accept it, "hating" it will neither change its message nor requirement.

 

God is an instiller of esteem. He shows us how much trust and confidence He has in us by "choosing" us to undergo tests. In that He does, He shows that He expects us to "pass" them—not because it is "us" going though or because He can find no one else. It is because He wants others to see what He has invested in us and consequently, what He can do for them.

 

We need to begin to tell ourselves that "I will have stability, I will remain saved and I need take nothing personally. All that I undergo, I undergo for God, by His permission and under His authority."

 

A "made-up mind" accomplishes many things in us. It will solve all of our petty little problems. We will have the means by which to serve the Lord under all circumstances and will find ourselves moved by nothing. We will finally be in the place where nothing will cause us to lose our faith.

 

It is never necessary to take anything personally. It is so important that we come to understand and accept this. No matter how something looks, if it comes to us, we can have confidence in the fact that it is going to work to the glory of God. If it were not, He would have never allowed it to come.